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Draft. A starting point, not advice, and not reviewed by a lawyer. It is written against the GDPR because that is the strictest regime this service is likely to meet, but a site open worldwide also answers to local law - among others the UK GDPR, California’s CCPA/CPRA, Brazil’s LGPD, and consumer rules in every market you accept members from. Have a lawyer review it before real people sign up.

Staying safe

Most people here are exactly who they say they are. These habits protect you from the ones who are not.

Before you meet

  • Talk in the app first. Someone who refuses to answer simple questions, or pushes hard to move to another messenger straight away, is worth a second look.
  • Do a quick image search of their photos. Stolen photos are the most common sign of a fake profile.
  • Video call once before meeting. It takes two minutes and rules out most impersonation.

The first meeting

  • Somewhere public and busy. A cafe, not their flat, not yours.
  • Tell a friend where you are going, who with, and when you expect to be back. Share your live location with them.
  • Arrange your own transport there and back.
  • Keep your drink with you. Do not accept an opened drink.
  • Leave whenever you want. You do not owe anyone an explanation, an apology, or more time.

Money is the reddest flag

Nobody you met a week ago needs your help with a customs fee, a hospital bill, a crypto opportunity, or a plane ticket. Every one of those is a scam script. Never send money, gift cards, or cryptocurrency, and never share card details, bank logins, or one-time payment codes - whatever they are called where you live. Report it instead.

Intimate images

A common extortion pattern is to ask for an intimate photo, then threaten to send it to your contacts. If it happens: do not pay, take screenshots, block, and report. Paying does not stop it.

Report and block

Every profile, post, comment, and conversation has a report button and a block button. Blocking hides you from each other and ends any match. Reporting sends the details to our moderators. Both are private - the other person is never told.

If you are in danger

Call your local emergency number. It is 112 across Europe and in much of the world, 911 in the United States and Canada, 999 in the United Kingdom, 000 in Australia, 110 in China and Japan, and 122 in Egypt. If you are unsure, 112 works from a mobile in most countries and will route you.

For support after sexual or domestic violence, look up the helpline for your country - most have a free, confidential one. In Poland that is Fundacja Feminoteka (888 88 33 88) and Niebieska Linia (800 12 00 02); in the UK, Rape Crisis (0808 500 2222); in the US, RAINN (800 656 4673).

Report it to us as well. Screenshots and message history help us remove the account and cooperate with any investigation.